Matthew 18:12; James 1:19-20
This class is a practical guide to what God wants and requires in our talk with one another and ultimately how we might effect a world around us in the use of speech.
Doran's Rule for Triggers
You are not able to draw conclusions from:
- tone of voice
- first communication
- body language
You may, however, ask a question, “Are you ok, you seem ________________?”
Matthew 18 Rules for Confrontation
When i suspect a sin has occurred:
- I go to my brother for his rescue in humility in private to point out what I think may have happened.
- I am open to his persepctive and if we have what seems to be an infraction yet still disagree:
- I bring another along with me to confirm all facts. If facts cannot be confirmed, I have to let such things go and trust the Lord.
- At any point along the line of confrontation I look for his reconciliation and for things to be set right.