Principles of Communication – Session 9

Matthew 18:12; James 1:19-20

This class is a practical guide to what God wants and requires in our talk with one another and ultimately how we might effect a world around us in the use of speech.

Doran's Rule for Triggers

You are not able to draw conclusions from:

  • tone of voice
  • first communication
  • body language

You may, however, ask a question, “Are you ok, you seem ________________?”

 

Matthew 18 Rules for Confrontation

When i suspect a sin has occurred:

  • I go to my brother for his rescue in humility in private to point out what I think may have happened.
  • I am open to his persepctive and if we have what seems to be an infraction yet still disagree:
  • I bring another along with me to confirm all facts. If facts cannot be confirmed, I have to let such things go and trust the Lord.
  • At any point along the line of confrontation I look for his reconciliation and for things to be set right.